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Rejection – The First Step To Successful Freelance Writing

rejection slipThe longer I talk with other writers and act as a writing coach,the more I’m convinced the first significant milestone in a successful freelance writing career is the first rejection letter or slip.

Most people who say they want to write never get this far; those who do and who keep writing after that first painful rejection are much more likely to go the distance and become successful.

That first rejection letter, and usually it is a pre-printed we’re sorry we can’t use… notice stuffed hastily in the SASE (Self Addressed Stamped Envelope), sent with an over-the-transom article represents a lot of work.

It started with the idea, which, for new writers, is more often than not pretty unformed. That idea had to be honed so a target market can be found. Then the writer actually has to write either a query or the piece and get it in the mail!

Writing Isn’t Easy

Sitting down to a blank screen and filling it up with readable prose isn’t easy. There are all sorts of distractions. It’s so much easier to play a computer game, check email, or wash the dishes or clean the house.

Sitting alone at a computer is an ideal place for self-doubts of all kinds to appear. Fear or it’s disguise, a bid for something called perfection, have stopped many.

But nothing happens until we do sit down and write. The best idea for a story or a book in the world is just a thought until you actually put pen to paper or fingers to the keyboard. Talking about it, creating rough drafts, starting then stopping before a piece is finished, giving up, are all traps. Successful freelancers have found a way to break through those traps and get the words down.

Then they’ve managed to deliver it.

Rejection Letters and Slips Are Badges of Courage

In truth, however, those first rejection slips are actually badges of courage. Think about it.  To get a rejection slip you’ve actually completed many steps, including:

  • The original idea
  • Honing that idea
  • Finding a target market or two
  • Drafting the article
  • Rewriting and editing, maybe many times
  • Final copy
  • Writing a cover letter (or deciding not to)
  • Doing SASE
  • Mailing everything

My suggestion is: post that rejection slip right on the wall – I did in the beginning, and now I wish I’d framed that first one.

Most Successful Authors Get Rejection Letters

Almost every successful writer has been rejected, often multiple times. In fact, Bill Henderson and Andre Bernard have actually compiled a wonderful selection of rejections in their book called Pushcart’s Complete Rotten Reviews and Rejections: A History of Insult, A Solace to Writers (Revised & Expanded) (Literary Companion Series). Included in the rejections they spell out are authors like Jane Austin, Irving Stone and even Dr. Seuss – his And To Think I Saw It On Mulberry Street was rejected with “It is too different from other juvenile books on the market to warrant it selling.”

Herman Melville, Anthony Trollope, Agatha Christie, HG Wells, Gustave Flaubert and Walt Whitman and even Anne Frank all had their writing rejected by publishers.

Yet somehow each one of these well-known writers, and many others, found a way to keep writing, and keep submitting. They were able to dig down deep into their own personal reserves and persist. And we are richer for their efforts.

So I say if you’re just getting started, work toward that first rejection letter. When it comes, celebrate it Frame it and hang it on the wall. It’s a badge of courage and an acknowledgment that you’ve passed the first milestone; you’re on your way.

You might enjoy the blog, Literary Rejections On Display, which has a collection of all sorts of rejections. In fact, you might want to submit your own.

Have you been rejected yet?

Write well and often,

Anne Wayman, freelance writer

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  • I manage to tame Poindexter (my inner critic) on most days. But the one thing still stumping me: how to put a positive face on a rejection from an unseen face and unknown persona. This article lends much needed tangible assistance to escape the mental morass, and I’m much appreciative! New project for this weekend → pinpoint potential submission targets, and tap at least 100 before Easter. More than one way to skin this rejection cat — I think
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    • Pam! Thanks for the video link too. Sounds like you’re on track… and although rejection no longer crushes me like it did early on, I’d never describe it as pleasant. ; -)

  • I’m saving all my rejection slips. When I publish the Great American Novel (or the Great American Coffee Table Book), and become fabulously wealthy, I’ll build a house and paper the smallest room with the slips.
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    • Anne

      And just how small will that guest room be?

  • Even in love, rejection can be a very painful and often traumatising (depends on which side you on) affair. But for a freelancer, I totally agree with Anne, show your rejection pile with pride and honour. It means they actaully took time to read through all your correspondence to the point of sending the rejected response.
    I wrote my own tips on dealing with rejection….http://kenyanfreelancer.blogspot.com/search?q=dealing+with+rejection
    .-= Judith´s last blog ..WHO IS THE BOSS? =-.

  • Pam

    Well put, Anne. I have quite the stack amassed but keep trying because for every 30 rejections, a positive one comes back too. 🙂

  • Omar

    This is a great perspective. When I submitted my writing to publications and received a rejection letter I was dejected. But I’m still writing and I’ll never give up. There are more opportunities.

    • Anne

      worked for me, glad you like it omar

  • A local writing group gives an annual cash award to its member who turns in the most rejection slips. The prize is small, but it’s encouragement for writers to think of rejection slips as something positive, as you’ve said so well here.
    .-= Lillie Ammann´s last blog ..What I Learned from a Blooper =-.

  • Hey, I’ll take a rejection from Yale anyday. At least you PRODUCED something- never a negative!
    .-= Allena´s last blog ..A Quote for You =-.

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