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	<description>Helping freelance writers make more money with their writing by Anne Wayman</description>
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		<title>By: Roy Daniel DSilva</title>
		<link>http://www.aboutfreelancewriting.com/2009/12/my-first-rejection-slips/comment-page-1/#comment-11771</link>
		<dc:creator>Roy Daniel DSilva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 17:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rejection Hurts. There&#039;s no two ways about it. You were unlucky enough to get rejected offline - so I guess it becomes more personal. 

As a person who begun writing in late 2004/5 I have had it easier. Send in an email, most never bother to reply, so I always have this chance of &#039;hey, they didn&#039;t read it&#039;,  or &#039;hey, the mail never reached them. I will resend them once I get the time&#039;.  though in my heart I knew that I was scrutinized, tested, and found wanting. :)

Nowadays, rejections come to me over mail, but with a varied number of reasons &#039;project canceled&#039;, &#039;awarded to someone else&#039; etc. 

Thats the way I like it. :D
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rejection Hurts. There&#8217;s no two ways about it. You were unlucky enough to get rejected offline &#8211; so I guess it becomes more personal. </p>
<p>As a person who begun writing in late 2004/5 I have had it easier. Send in an email, most never bother to reply, so I always have this chance of &#8216;hey, they didn&#8217;t read it&#8217;,  or &#8216;hey, the mail never reached them. I will resend them once I get the time&#8217;.  though in my heart I knew that I was scrutinized, tested, and found wanting. <img src='http://www.aboutfreelancewriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Nowadays, rejections come to me over mail, but with a varied number of reasons &#8216;project canceled&#8217;, &#8216;awarded to someone else&#8217; etc. </p>
<p>Thats the way I like it. <img src='http://www.aboutfreelancewriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Roy Daniel DSilva´s last blog ..<a href="http://thefreelanceresource.com/2010/03/22/work-at-home-tips-a-paid-subscription-to-a-job-site-hold-that-thought/">Work at Home Tips: A Paid Subscription to a Job Site? Hold that Thought!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
		<link>http://www.aboutfreelancewriting.com/2009/12/my-first-rejection-slips/comment-page-1/#comment-9618</link>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 16:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for sharing Mitch</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for sharing Mitch</p>
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		<title>By: Mitch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 04:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes I feel like I was the rejection king, but I&#039;m sure I&#039;m not.

My first rejections were of my songs in the 80&#039;s, as I wanted to be a professional songwriter.  I didn&#039;t get a single one that said I couldn&#039;t write; every one I got said they couldn&#039;t hear a pop hit in the song.  Truthfully, I think I only wrote one song ever that sounded like a top 10 song; who remembers when Lionel Richie was on top?

Then in 2003 and 2004 I sent out a lot of letters trying to get a publisher to accept my book for publication.  I ended up with close to 50 rejections before I decided to just self publish the thing and move on.  I even got Ken Blanchard to read it, as it is a book on leadership and management; he liked it, but said it wasn&#039;t in his style, which was fine because it wasn&#039;t supposed to be.

I will say that I&#039;ve kept some of the rejection slips, but not most of them, mainly because of my music experience.  I figure that at least I had the guts to try.
.-= Mitch´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ImJustSharing/~3/tAJaQHzUebo/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My Online Goals For 2010, And A Look Back At 2009&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I feel like I was the rejection king, but I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m not.</p>
<p>My first rejections were of my songs in the 80&#8242;s, as I wanted to be a professional songwriter.  I didn&#8217;t get a single one that said I couldn&#8217;t write; every one I got said they couldn&#8217;t hear a pop hit in the song.  Truthfully, I think I only wrote one song ever that sounded like a top 10 song; who remembers when Lionel Richie was on top?</p>
<p>Then in 2003 and 2004 I sent out a lot of letters trying to get a publisher to accept my book for publication.  I ended up with close to 50 rejections before I decided to just self publish the thing and move on.  I even got Ken Blanchard to read it, as it is a book on leadership and management; he liked it, but said it wasn&#8217;t in his style, which was fine because it wasn&#8217;t supposed to be.</p>
<p>I will say that I&#8217;ve kept some of the rejection slips, but not most of them, mainly because of my music experience.  I figure that at least I had the guts to try.<br />
.-= Mitch´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ImJustSharing/~3/tAJaQHzUebo/">My Online Goals For 2010, And A Look Back At 2009</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth West</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth West</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 01:49:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think my first one was for a story contest in Cosmopolitan in the 80s.  I sent this really stupid story about a woman who has an affair with her friend&#039;s younger son.  It was TERRIBLE.  But it was kind of cool to actually get rejected; I felt like a real writer!

I didn&#039;t submit anything for a long time after that, not because I was afraid or upset, just because I wasn&#039;t writing as much, only journaling.  Then came loads of homework when I went back to school, and finally I got back into fiction.  Now I&#039;m querying a book and collecting them right and left. I&#039;ve made a file for them and I&#039;ll save them for posterity when I&#039;m rich and famous, LOL!
.-= Elizabeth West´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://aelizabethwest.wordpress.com/2009/12/30/feed-me/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Feed Me&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think my first one was for a story contest in Cosmopolitan in the 80s.  I sent this really stupid story about a woman who has an affair with her friend&#8217;s younger son.  It was TERRIBLE.  But it was kind of cool to actually get rejected; I felt like a real writer!</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t submit anything for a long time after that, not because I was afraid or upset, just because I wasn&#8217;t writing as much, only journaling.  Then came loads of homework when I went back to school, and finally I got back into fiction.  Now I&#8217;m querying a book and collecting them right and left. I&#8217;ve made a file for them and I&#8217;ll save them for posterity when I&#8217;m rich and famous, LOL!<br />
.-= Elizabeth West´s last blog ..<a href="http://aelizabethwest.wordpress.com/2009/12/30/feed-me/">Feed Me</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: jorgekafkazar</title>
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		<dc:creator>jorgekafkazar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t remember my rejection slips in any particular order. One from SEP called the piece fun to read and encouraged me to send more. One from another mag said, &quot;a good read, but a trifle bizarre for our readers.&quot; A Sci-Fi mag&#039;s editor gently pointed out that their fiction had definitive endings, something I should have known. I&#039;ve saved all my rejection slips, hoping, once I&#039;m successful, to buy a big house and wallpaper the smallest room therein with the slips.
.-= jorgekafkazar´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://jorgekafkazar.wordpress.com/2009/09/07/tenirax-ch-v/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tenirax, Ch V&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t remember my rejection slips in any particular order. One from SEP called the piece fun to read and encouraged me to send more. One from another mag said, &#8220;a good read, but a trifle bizarre for our readers.&#8221; A Sci-Fi mag&#8217;s editor gently pointed out that their fiction had definitive endings, something I should have known. I&#8217;ve saved all my rejection slips, hoping, once I&#8217;m successful, to buy a big house and wallpaper the smallest room therein with the slips.<br />
.-= jorgekafkazar´s last blog ..<a href="http://jorgekafkazar.wordpress.com/2009/09/07/tenirax-ch-v/">Tenirax, Ch V</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Almost Slowfood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Almost Slowfood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rejection? I spent the first year of my freelance life getting rejected almost every day. But, I considered contact with an editor a triumph and just sent query after query until one stuck!! Nice post:)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rejection? I spent the first year of my freelance life getting rejected almost every day. But, I considered contact with an editor a triumph and just sent query after query until one stuck!! Nice post:)<br />
.-= Almost Slowfood´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AlmostSlowfood/~3/HgR0S8QbFDA/super-easy-dinner-pork-chops-with.html">Super Easy Dinner: Pork Chops with Apples and Sage</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Chef E</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chef E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny, but I felt I could not handle rejection, so I never tried until later in life...love this site, and thanks Rebecca for posting it!
.-= Chef E´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://cookappeal.blogspot.com/2009/12/wine-down-wthings-are-popping.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wine-down Wednesday- A Popping New Year!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny, but I felt I could not handle rejection, so I never tried until later in life&#8230;love this site, and thanks Rebecca for posting it!<br />
.-= Chef E´s last blog ..<a href="http://cookappeal.blogspot.com/2009/12/wine-down-wthings-are-popping.html">Wine-down Wednesday- A Popping New Year!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: rebecca subbiah</title>
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		<dc:creator>rebecca subbiah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for sharing it gives me  hope

Happy new year

Rebecca
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for sharing it gives me  hope</p>
<p>Happy new year</p>
<p>Rebecca<br />
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		<title>By: Lucy Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lucy Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 01:27:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve always tried to think of rejection as another rite of passage. And each rejection is one rejection closer to acceptance. In practice though, it always sucks, lol.

I find that these days, with email, the sting is lessened because it can be so much more informal. Just the other day, I emailed an editor of a new magazine about dogs (kind of my area) to sound out the possibility of contributing, and to find out the sort of stories they had planned. He responded positively, but I think the scariness of it (and therefore the likeliness of being crushed by rejection) was definitely less than if I&#039;d been waiting by the mailbox for my yea or nay. And, in fact, this way I had a much better idea of what they were after than if I&#039;d just tried to guess and pitch them something.
.-= Lucy Smith´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.butterflycopywriting.com/web-content?utm_source=RSS+Feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Butterfly+Copywriting+Blog&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why are we not content with web content?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always tried to think of rejection as another rite of passage. And each rejection is one rejection closer to acceptance. In practice though, it always sucks, lol.</p>
<p>I find that these days, with email, the sting is lessened because it can be so much more informal. Just the other day, I emailed an editor of a new magazine about dogs (kind of my area) to sound out the possibility of contributing, and to find out the sort of stories they had planned. He responded positively, but I think the scariness of it (and therefore the likeliness of being crushed by rejection) was definitely less than if I&#8217;d been waiting by the mailbox for my yea or nay. And, in fact, this way I had a much better idea of what they were after than if I&#8217;d just tried to guess and pitch them something.<br />
.-= Lucy Smith´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.butterflycopywriting.com/web-content?utm_source=RSS+Feed&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Butterfly+Copywriting+Blog">Why are we not content with web content?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 00:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks! yes, the you&#039;re not alone, or I&#039;m not alone is important.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks! yes, the you&#8217;re not alone, or I&#8217;m not alone is important.</p>
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